Charm & Diplomacy at All Times

Copyright Stella Woods
October 2008

Do these nice guys ever have sex?  Of course they do, they just don’t talk about it in those terms…better learn their language then!

TIPS FOR MEN

Flowers, chocolates, and perfume, the classic romantic formula, will attract Libra, the quintessential romantic. Invite her to a movie and hold her hand. Uncouth behaviour and dirty jokes are out!  Most women dislike this sort of stuff, but a Libra gal will be completely repelled.  She’s a refined creature - try taking her to an art gallery or music concert.  If that isn't her scene, try an outdoor picnic in a romantic location - with bottle of champagne of course - Libras love champagne! She likes a partner full of interesting ideas and witty conversation who can woo her in style.

TIPS FOR WOMEN

These guys like to chat and charm, so show off your own social graces and love of culture and you will impress. The Libra guy can often seem laid back or even lazy. Don't be fooled. He's a master of social interaction and knows exactly what's going on. Show him how much you appreciate his PR ability and you can't fail!  He’s usually pretty smart and loves to get to know people so there'll be plenty to discuss. You can move onto more interesting topics later! Invite him for dinner or drinks and brush up against him gently.

All About Librans
The Sun travels through air sign Libra from 23rd September until 23rd October this year. Libra is the seventh sign of the zodiac with keywords “I balance” and “I seek my other half”. Those born under the sign of the Scales promote love and harmony and teach us about give and take. They adore relationships, are often cultured or artistic and are experts in charm, diplomacy and negotiation. Negatively, Librans can be superficial, indecisive, manipulative or dependent and because they hate unpleasantness or disagreement, they often avoid conflict or reality. In medical astrology, Libra rules the kidneys, lumbar region and skin, so when Librans are out of balance they can suffer from lower back pain, kidney problems, urinary tract problems and skin diseases such as eczema. The Libra colours are ivory, pink, turquoise and blue. Libra’s greatest lesson is to learn to develop the ‘inner partner’ and become whole rather than seek an outer partner to feel complete.

How to handle a Libra
Well, it’s more a question of how to stop them handling you!  These career diplomats will subtly manoeuvre you into a corner and you won’t be able to refuse their ever-so-pleasant requests. But if you do find yourself needing to handle a Libra, charm and diplomacy is the way to go. Smile, ask them nicely and they’ll almost always say ‘Yes’.