I did it my way...

Copyright Stella Woods
November 2008

Sagittarians have their own unique approach to love.   If you're planning on bedding one of these wild, untameable creatures, ask yourself:
'Am I dealing with the human or the horse?'

TIPS FOR MEN

Impress her with tales of your trip to the Himalayas or your collection of travel books. Better still invite her to go backpacking with you. This woman usually loves travelling and exploring the world and not many can keep up with her. Make sure you're fit though, or she'll wear you out.

Don't fence her in. She's unlikely to be looking to settle down for at least the next ten years so if you're smitten, tell her (Sagittarians like honesty) and ask her what she feels like doing. Then brace yourself for the response. Whatever it is you're bound to have a good time with this exciting woman!

TIPS FOR WOMEN

Sagittarius is the king of philosophy with ideas popping out of his brain at the speed of light.   He loves a sparring partner in debate, so enjoy listening to his far flung ideas and then stun him with a few of your own. You'll be up until the small hours so lay in some beers and pizza.
 
Does everything have to be an adventure?  For the Sagittarian male, life without adventure is not worth living.  Invite him on a road trip, a canoe trip, a day out at Water World - anything that gets the adrenaline flowing and both of you moving. He'll be happy enough to slow down later on....

All About Sagittarians
From 22nd November to 21st December, the Sun travels through Sagittarius, an intuitive fire sign noted for its vision, adventurous nature and love of philosophy. Sagittarius is the ninth sign of the zodiac with keywords “I seek” and “I expand”. Those born under the sign of the Archer often struggle to integrate their animal nature with their more lofty human side. Sagittarians seek expansion on all levels, mental, physical, emotional and spiritual, and can usually be found travelling, studying and exploring life’s big issues. They love to share their wisdom and are often talented writers or teachers. At best they are intelligent, honest, generous and inspirational. Negatively, they can be tactless, self indulgent, coarse and hypocritical. In medical astrology, Sagittarius rules the liver, hips and thighs and sacral regions of the spine. When Sagittarians are out of balance they can suffer from sciatica, hip diseases, rheumatism and weight gain. The Sagittarian colours are purple and deep blue. Sagittarius’s greatest lessons are moderation, tact and learning to deliver what they promise.

How to handle a Sagittarian
Play it straight.  Honesty really is the best policy with these frank individuals.  They’re pretty smart, so they’ll notice straight away if you’re employing slippery tactics or trying to fool them.  Just ask for what you want and you’ll probably get it…. and if you don’t they’ll be more than happy to explain why they are not falling in with your plans.  Appeal to their sense of fairness.

One word of warning!   If you try to manipulate and control a Sagittarian or tell them what to do, they’ll kick up those horses’ hooves and you won’t see them for dust.